Thursday, October 27, 2011

Push & Shove: A post on LOVE





What is being a christian? 
REALLY? 
DAILY? 
Today, when I wake up and I am believing that my cat will still be alive, but he may not be. 


When push comes to shove what does my faith deliver? What does it LOOK LIKE?  
A GOOD life? 
An EASY life? 
Prosperity? 
Heath? 
EVERYTHING I want? 


The bible says in Psalm 37:4: "Delight yourself in the Lord; and he will give you the desires of your heart."  I think we focus on the desires part. I have a ton of desires in my heart that, God willing, I will see come to pass someday. I could list them through tearful typing, but I won't.  What if they don't come to pass? Does that mean my faith doesn't work? I just need to pray more, believe harder? That my GOD isn't doing his thing? NO, none of those things. So really, what does my faith deliver? 

My faith delivers LOVE to me. Love in the form of sacrifice, life, knowledge and JESUS. 

Over the past 3 to 4 years, I have seen my desires shift more from things, objects, goals even (and you know how "goal" oriented I can be) to HIM being my desire. To focus on, want relationship with and desire Christ above all. It's LOVE. 


Think about this, when Jesus was on the earth, the night before he was set to die on the cross for me, for you, he asked God, his father if there was ANY other way to pay for sin. Any other way and he asked twice. He knew what it was like to be crucified, he saw it growing up, he knew what was coming and I am sure that he desired to NOT go through that, he asked not to.  


Love as Sacrifice:
Jesus died for me, willingly was crucified. He asked for another way to pay for my sin and then, had to lay aside his desires and go through with the plan. HE sacrificed his life, his perfect life and precious blood, out of love for me.  Why then do I get to demand that the desires of my heart be met, EVEN if they are Godly? I don't, and I don't want to. This is what dying to self really is. The implications of this really hit home this past month. I can't be distracted by my desires and put them before God, when I do they become idols and life is wasted.  I will try and hopefully succeed at laying my desires aside and go through what is ahead. I will shine that light into the darkness. I will stand up and go alone if I have to. HE is my desire, my joy, I aim for him and I will sacrifice for him.


Love as Life: 
My faith delivers life to me. Here on earth, things are tainted. Don't get me wrong, God is GOOD, life is GOOD, but imperfect things happen. Cats get sick, friends get sick, sweethearts leave, the enemy throws wrenches in the little cogs of our world that we oil with hope and prayer. In John, the bible promises not just life but ABUNDANT life! Whew, thank goodness, so we get to live in abundance and blessing. Yes. But we CHOOSE to live an abundant life, wrenches in cogs, sick friends, cats and all. It's like the desire...is my desire a nice house or Christ? Does abundance mean trips to Fiji or a beautiful communion with God? Right. So, is it OK to have both? Yep, just keep it in check. Abundant life, abundance in THIS life, is favor and blessing, all glory belongs to Christ for it, but what he gives, he is free to take away and still be King in my heart.  


Love as Knowledge: 
I used to think bad things happened to me because I WAS bad. And I was bad, I was a pretty wretched friend, I drank too much, was demanding, irrational and obnoxious. But I quit drinking (badum-ching!) Har! No for real, I learned that I was not the cause of these things, my bad behavior wasn't the cause either. 


I really understood that there is an enemy set against us to destroy us. He isn't the old fashioned villain tying you to the train tracks kind of enemy either. He doesn't want to make my life "hard" or "screw things up" he wants to kill me, steal my hope, break my spirit and crush me. 


GOOD. LUCK. 


I know he's serious and I am not going to go into detail, but the last 4 months or so, the measures he has gone to have been impressive. Why? Because NOW I am a threat. I wasn't before, but  I am consistent in my faith, in my hope, in my word and action. Not perfect, but consistent. 


Gone is the Mary who would confess a few scriptures and then stop and wallow because they didn't "WORK". Now I confess, and confess and believe. The knowledge? It's KNOWING that GOOD is on my side, that God's words He said to me, His promises are true, no matter what I see and experience here. 


Even if the lord doesn't make my cat well, I know he can and loves me enough to. 


Even if I don't see all the desires of my heart come to pass, I know his plan for me is the BEST for my life!


Even if my days are challenging, he has NEVER left me alone and never will. 


Even when I feel like I am at the END of my rope, he is there to pull me back up. 


Even when I don't know how big or bad the wrenches are that are being hurled at me today, I KNOW he will give me the strength to handle them. 


HE will take my life and make something of it, for his glory. 


HE will shower me with his love and strength everyday in every battle so I can do the same to others.  


I WANT Him to be enough for me, everyday, in good and bad, in sickness and health, when I "feel" lost, when I don't want to go on, when I am selfish, when I am sad and when I am ready to throw my hands up and give up. I want HIM to be enough for me. HE is the strength of my heart, HE is my portion, forever. 


When push comes to shove, he sacrificed and I will too. It's not easy or fun or popular. When push comes to shove, life is abundant, but sometimes, that doesn't look like what we think it should. When push comes to shove LOVE shows up in all the lessons,  when we "get it" after 20 times of falling in the same hole. Love show up in the moments where we say, where are you NOW God? 

And are met with the sweet answer: on the throne. Where he will always be as my King till FINALLY, one day, I cross that finish line, climb that big hill of Zion, open the big double doors, walk up to him and cast my crowns at his feet. What a Glorious day, what a grand ending and beautiful beginning. THAT is what it is like to be a Christian when push comes to shove. 



PS--I am not a theologian, I just play one on TV. 

3 comments:

Cherri said...

Hello Mary,
I just recently started reading your blog (like within the past week) and I feel like this post was written especially for me! It's crazy how you can find inspiration where you least expect it. I love what you've written here and keep believing!

Dr. TriRunner said...

If you haven't read the book Love Wins by Rob Bell... you should check it out. Good stuff!

Hugs to you chica.

Mary said...

Thanks Cherri, glad to encourage!! I am so glad you are reading and enjoying!
@Erika I should check it out, I know!!

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