Will we open that gifting we have and USE it? God had called us all differently, some he has called to be dancers, some actors, some mothers and some missionaries... All of us he has called to shine his light. One way is through discipline and self control.
Does everyone have the same calling? No way! Does everyone work the same, workout the same and work on self control in same areas? Of course not, we will know in our spirits what God is prompting us to do and what areas to give over to him and follow his call of self control.